The typical conversation about females consists of this: Person A “Wow, she looks so good!” Person B “Nahh, she is fat. She needs to learn what a gym, is or just stop eating”. What? Are you kidding me? Since when Person B determine what was skinny and what was fat. Kate Upton for example (I do not understand the obsession, but I digress) is not fat. Kim Kardashian is not fat. If you type in these women’s names on Google there is a subsection of ‘(Name) fat’! Candice Swanepoel is defiantly not fat… yes, I have heard a person say that she is fat because of her curves. Oh, and this one gets me. Person B who says how nasty women look post baby….please do not get me started *breath Amanda, breath*
For somebody to sit there (male or female) and call somebody fat is crazy to me. I always respond with “Well, what are you doing to better yourself?” Sitting in front of a computer all day or a TV does nothing to help you in life. So people have some extra skin or love here and there. So what? Who are you, this lazy judgmental person to break down somebody’s temple they live with their whole life? People are different. We are different colors, sizes, and shapes. We speak different languages, eat different food, and enjoy different recreational activities. That is the most beautiful thing about life.
Today may be one large rant about rude people, or it may be the truth that has been bundled up inside of me for a while. Either way I hope that you look in the mirror tonight without thinking about stereotypes or what others want you to look like and just be happy.
I leave you with a bible verse Matthew 7:1-5 “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.
Don’t let a log create an illusion of something that is right in front of you- Face your log before you can judge somebody on their speck!